It is always difficult for parents to part with their children during their growing years. Yet, at times, it becomes necessary. With heavy hearts, parents admit their children to boarding schools where they live and study away from home during the academic year. The reasons may differ: both parents may be working in demanding jobs, families may be moving frequently, or parents may want their children to get a particular kind of training, such as in a military or residential school.

Children in boarding schools often experience homesickness and loneliness in the beginning. But gradually, they adapt to the new environment and routine. Still, nothing can replace the warmth, guidance and emotional support of parents during childhood. It is unfair to send very young children, barely six or seven years old, to such schools. After middle school, however, children are better able to cope with separation from home and can adjust more easily.

There is no doubt that boarding schools teach children values and skills they might not learn at home. Qualities such as sharing, teamwork, leadership, independence and decision-making develop naturally when children live among peers. In such an environment, students must manage their own study time, choose their friends wisely and learn to solve daily problems on their own. This helps them mature faster, become confident and prepare for challenges in life.

On the other hand, there are also risks. Away from parental supervision, some children may fall into bad company, develop harmful habits, or pick up dishonesty in small matters. Peer pressure can sometimes lead them astray. Such things are not uncommon in residential schools.

Therefore, it is the responsibility of parents to remain connected with their children, even when they are at boarding schools. Regular communication, visits and attention to their emotional well-being are important. Only then can parents ensure that their children are growing in the right direction. Many boarding schools today provide excellent facilities for academics, sports and overall personality development, but nothing can replace the watchful care and guidance of parents.